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The Top 10 Books of 2012

December 23, 2012 — Leave a comment

The Top 10 Books of 2012Happy Sunday, and Happy Christmas Eve Eve!

Today’s post is about books — specifically my favorite ones from this year.

We’ll get to the list, but first let me clarify:

These books weren’t necessarily written in 2012 (though many were released this year); they were just books that I finally got around to reading this year.

Also, they’re not meant to form any specific genre or sub genre of books, although they’re all nonfiction. I decided that I could write a post about the best fiction books I read this year, but that it might alienate some out there who aren’t interested in the same sort of books as I.

Instead, these books are all the sort that I think are entertaining, helpful, insightful, or otherwise useful to the vast majority of my readership (authors, writers, bloggers, creators, etc.).

So, therefore, I give you The Top 10 Books of 2012 - LiveHacked.com style:

#10. Drop-Dead Healthy: One Man’s Humble Quest for Bodily Perfection by A.J. Jacobs

If you’ve never heard of A.J. Jacobs, drop what you’re doing and go find one of his books. As the editor at Esquire magazine, he is a seasoned journalist and writer, and each of his books are downright hilarious (on purpose). I’ve read most of them, and Drop-Dead Healthy was the latest for me.

As a certified self-declared “life hacker,” I try to keep a good balance in my life, and Drop-Dead Healthy is a great motivator. He works through each of the major areas of the human body, from physique to psychoanalysis, with each chapter taking the reader on yet another half-crazed self-experiment. Other notable titles among my favorites of his are The Know-It-All and The Year of Living Biblically. You can probably guess what each are about!

#9. Everything I Know About Business I Learned from Monopoly by Alan Axelrod

I’m a huge Monopoly buff. Okay, fine — I’m a huge nerdy board game buff. Show me Risk and I’ll show you Settlers of Cataan; show me Carcassonne and I’ll ask to play Dominion.

Still with me? Anyway, I got to the point in my Monopoly games where I wanted to bring in more strategy than what I’d already picked up. For that, I bought two books — Everything I Know About Business I Learned from Monopoly and The Monopoly Companion. While the latter was definitely the most helpful for my Mono-skills, the former was a more interesting read.

The book uses anecdotes from well-known CEOs and businesspeople to relate to Monopoly, and while I first read it a few years ago, its permanent spot on my shelf lets me steal a peek when I’m waiting for a download or find a few spare minutes.

#8. Platform: Get Noticed in a Noisy World by Michael Hyatt

What’s funny about this book when it first came out was that I was totally writing it first. I’m not accusing Michael of “stealing” it (he is, after all, a little bit more well-known than I), but I honestly was going to originally call my book Welcome Home (The Author’s Guide to Building A Marketing Home Base) Welcome Home: Get Noticed in a Noisy World. 

No joke. I thought of it first.

Anyway, the book is great — it’s a good overview of building an online platform, but it does lack a little depth and specificity in certain places. However, there are always other options if you would like more depth and specificity…

#7. The Conservative’s Handbook by Phil Valentine

Regardless of your politics, this book might be interesting to flip through. It’s a down-to-earth, by-the-numbers account of why a conservative is a conservative in modern America. It doesn’t attempt to “teach people how to think,” nor does it put down “alternative” political views — it just explains, in plain English, why most conservatives feel a certain way about the major political issues.

I put it on this list because it, along with The Little Blue Book: The Essential Guide to Thinking and Talking Democratic, helped me form my own opinions about politics in American elections. The Conservative’s Handbook made the list because it’s extremely well-written and researched, and is easy to read (it’s written in layman’s terms, not political mumbo-jumbo).

#6. The Next Christians by Gabe Lyons

Gabe paints a bleak picture of modern-day Christianity. To simplify, those Christians who remain faithful and live out their beliefs seem almost cultish or come across as prudes, while those Christians who live vicariously, claiming “it’s all okay as long as we repent” portray the exact opposite of what Christ preached and taught. The book examines the failings of the Church to preach in a way that’s at once accessible and simultaneously firm on scriptural law.

But he doesn’t stop there. Hailed as “massively optimistic,” The Next Christians offers a way to live as a real Christian in a world that seems to not want us around. We’re currently doing a study on the book at my church, and it’s proven to be as challenging as it is insightful.

#5. Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson

No matter your feelings about the man, it seems as though Steve Jobs has left quite the legacy. From Apple Computers to NeXT to Pixar, Jobs is hailed of one of the greatest minds of the modern era.

I’m a Mac fanboy, for sure, but regardless, this tome by Walter Isaacson is second-to-none in terms of completeness, organization, and thoroughness. A monster of a book, it’s well-worth every penny spent on it and every minute reading it.

#4. Techniques of the Selling Writer by Dwight Swain

This is another book I read last year that now has a permanent “to re-read” spot on my desk or bookshelf. Dwight Swain was an absolute master of explaining the creative writing process in a down-to-earth, easily understood manner, and I continue to recommend it to new writers.

#3. The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg

I posted earlier this year on the habit-setting (and breaking) process, and most of the material for that post came from this book.

Charles Duhigg uses scientific experiments and anecdotal research to elegantly wind a normally-boring subject into one that’s downright fascinating. I highly recommend this book just for the entertainment value, although I learned a considerable amount about how my own habits were set and mastered by reading it.

#2. The $100 Startup by Chris Guillebeau

I’ve been following Chris’ progress on the blogosphere since I downloaded his awesome manifesto, 279 Days to Overnight Success. That was sometime in 2005 or 2006, and I immediately subscribed to his RSS feed and mailing list, and watched him grow the blog to massive numbers and build a career around his “travel hacking” techniques.

He’s an accomplished entrepreneur with a heart for mission work, and so I jumped at the opportunity to read his own words on how to grow a business (for, what’s nice, in just $100). If it seems to good to be true, you should probably buy the book (take it out of that first $100) and find out how serious he is about it!

#1. Malcolm Gladwell: Collected by Malcolm Gladwell

If you haven’t heard of Gladwell, you’ve been living under a rock. He’s broken into the mainstream of what I like to call “popular economics” — the pseudo-science of predicting and explaining humanity’s biggest questions.

He’s one of the most amazing writers I’ve ever had the pleasure of reading, and he’s able to take something as mundane as museum art (yes, I know, I have no class) and make it into page-turning reading.

My parents bought me the boxed set of his first three books, Blink, Outliers, and The Tipping Point, and since there was no way I’d be able to choose my favorite, I decided to cheat and include them all. If you have to start with one, though, read The Tipping Point, then Blink, then Outliers.

See you tomorrow!

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The Greatest Lifehack of All Time

Photo by Scott Hudson

Note from Nick: I’ve been not-so-patiently awaiting the launch of Loren Wade’s blog, Unlifer (it’s today, so go check it out!). If you haven’t heard of him yet, you will. He’s an awesome guy and I’m honored to be a part of his launch team!

Lifehacking is commonly defined as, “making one’s daily life more efficient”.

There is one reoccurring theme in life; one that governs our minds, our hearts, and our souls. It’s commonly overlooked, undervalued, and many times viewed as cliché. You might think it’s too simple but if you really think about it and utilize it, it’s life changing.

The greatest lifehack of all time is love.

You’re probably asking yourself, “What does love have to do with lifehacking?” Well, everything.

Love is usually viewed as an affection or an attachment to something. That’s true, but it’s also more than that. It’s desire, it’s romance, it’s friendship, and even worship. If you get right down to it, there’s practical applications too. It’s not just lovey-dovey romance we expect it be. Love can mean so many things. I think Apostle Paul said it the best in his letter to Corinth (1 Corinthians 13:4-8),

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.

No matter what you believe about the Bible, there’s no denying that’s true. Did you know that the Greek language has four different words for love?

  • Agápe, or “selfless love”. This is overwhelming love for God or another person devoid of sexual meaning.
  • Éros, or “intimate love”. Not necessarily sexual, but it is a longing or passionate love.
  • Philia, or “friendly love”. This is friendship with family and friends.
  • Storge, or “affection”. Although not used as much, it could mean love for a child or even your enemies.

Considering all of these different interpretations and meanings for love, can you see how practical it would be? This brings us to practical application number one.

Love your enemies.

This may remind you of a famous quote from Jesus,

Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven.

Maybe you don’t have any “enemies” per se, but you’re bound to have disagreements, arguments, or problems with someone. It’s inevitable. Leo Babauta of the very famous blog Zen Habits has an entire article on this one subject titled, 10 Tips for Life’s Greatest Challenge: Love Thy Enemy. He defines an enemy as anyone you really dislike. At one point in you life, someone has hurt you deeply and it still hurts to think about it.

The answer to this is simple, but tough: forgive them. Show them love in return.

Why forgive someone that hurt you? Because if you don’t, they have something held over you for the rest of your life.You are giving them control over you if you don’t let them go. You never know, you may even change that person’s life. Either way, it’s less of a burden on you and you will be happier for it. Just remember, forgiveness is something we do for ourselves, not for the person being forgiven.

Practical application number two is more broad and just as life-changing.

Love your neighbor.

Though we commonly view neighbor as the guy who lives next door, it really means anyone. Beyond just your enemy, love people in general. Help people in need. Don’t be selfish. Give graciously. You’ve heard The Golden Rule, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Believe it or not, The Golden Rule can be found in some form or another in almost every single belief or religion you can find. Ancient Babylon, China, Egypt, Greece, India, Tamizhagam, as well as at least 17 religions according to Wikipedia.

Loving your neighbor also has a second application: putting to death your selfish self.

Struggling with your friend? Be patient with them. Someone you know struggling with something? Be there for them. Someone need a favor? Help them. Loving your neighbor could even be as simple as listening to their problems. There’s probably millions of applications for this, but you get the point.

The last application might surprise you.

Love is fulfilling.

Loving people is very fulfilling in more ways than one, even though that may sound selfish. Not only will you feel happier for loving people, they will reciprocate. Love, and people will return with love. That’s not selfish, is it? I don’t think so. It’s paying it forward. The Golden Rule.

Furthermore, it’s fulfilling because you can accomplish anything. You were born with the inclination to accomplish something. Help people accomplish their goals and they will help you accomplish yours. Don’t walk through life alone. Find someone to love, something to live for, and something to put your heart into. Personally, this means I chose to give my life, love, worship, and adoration to Jesus Christ. That’s fulfilling to me.

Love can mean many things to many different people.

The fact remains that it makes life easier, you will accomplish more, and you feel more fulfilled.

That’s why I’ve chosen to call it the greatest lifehack of all time.

Loren Wade is the author of Unlifer, a blog dedicated to inspiring and empowering people with practical ways to lifehack a broken world. You can follow him on Twitter and Facebook.

  • The Secret to Writing Great Nonfiction  Malcolm Gladwell
  • Seth Godin
  • AJ Jacobs
  • Tim Ferriss
  • David McCullough

There. I just listed off a handful of my all-time favorite non-fiction authors. Actually, I just looked to my right and read off the names of the authors of a section of books on my bookshelf.

What they all have in common is, yes, they write nonfiction (for the most part). That means their stuff is real, true, and based on factual evidence.

The problem I have with a lot of nonfiction though is that it’s boring (ironically enough, the same problem I have with a lot of fiction).

Boring people, boring anecdotes, boring writing style, just boring.

I just finished reading Craig Groeschel’s new book, Love, Sex, and Happily Ever After. If you’re wondering, it IS about love, sex, and living happily ever after. Groeschel is the pastor of LifeChurch.tv, the great church that gave us the Bible app!

But I digress.

This post is about two things: first, a look at what makes great nonfiction (and, by extension, great fiction). Second, a simple review of Groeschel’s book, which I received as a review copy.

I’ll just put it out there: I liked Craig’s book. It was easy to read, concise, and the scriptural examples he used lined up perfectly with the message he was trying to get across. As a newlywed (just over a year), the advice and tips he included were refreshing, helpful, and funny at times. All in all, a great read.

I found myself nodding in agreement along with his words, chapter after chapter, liking the writing but not necessarily getting anything new out of it. Like I said, there was some great advice for a newlywed like myself, but it was generally based on information I’d heard before.

I thought by the end of the book I’d give it about 2 or 3 stars out of five. “Craig,” I’d write, “it was good, but it was stuff I’d heard before. I want something new.”

But I can’t do that–the book was very good, and there’s no reason to deny an author a star or two because their information wasn’t new to me. That’s just unfair.

But more importantly, I couldn’t give fewer than four stars because of something deeper; something not as apparent.

Groeschel’s a great writer, and I actually read the book far quicker than I would have if he was just an “average” nonfiction writer.

The reason?

Groeschel tells a story.

It’s a story about him, most of the time, dealing with one thing or another as a pastor, family man, husband, and human, but it’s a story about other people as well–all entertwined and spun together in a way that reads quite well.

That’s when I realized: this is the secret to great nonfiction writing.

Tell the story.

No matter what you’re writing about, I believe there’s a way to tell the story. No matter how dry, bland, and boring your subject matter might be, you can certainly figure out a way to tell the story (and you should!).

The authors I listed above all do this exceptionally well, with specific mention to guys like Gladwell, Godin, and McCullough. Each of their books, dog-eared and waiting for me to read them yet again, are filled with stories.

These stories tell the histories, battles, experiments, tests, research, and everything in between from our world, and they do it in a way that’s so compelling you forget you’re reading nonfiction.

When you write nonfiction, you need to tell the story as well. Stories are more than just fun ways to convey a message or a lesson–they’re an ingrained part of human culture (no matter which culture it is), and they’re a natural component of our lives. Most people, in fact, only come to an understanding of a subject through the application of it in story (think of the word problems you used to learn in Math).

Story is important–whether you’re trying to tell a story or a fact-based account, and you should ignore it at your peril.

Grab a copy of Groeschel’s book if you can, and enjoy the stories he uses as backdrops for his lessons. Most importantly, start using stories in your own writing–fiction or not.